Your Family: Past, Present, and Future

I have one living grandparent—my father’s mother, who’s 88.

Nana.

I visited Nana recently and went through the usual activities—talking about myself in a loud voice, fixing her “broken machine” by unminimizing the internet browser window, being told to slow down Timothy and get in the left lane, even though the turn is still a half mile ahead. But I also used the visit as an opportunity to do something I have not done nearly enough in my life—ask her questions about our family.

I don’t know you, but I can almost guarantee that you don’t ask your grandparents (or older parents) enough questions about their lives and the lives of their parents. We’re all incredibly self-absorbed, and in being so, we forget to care about the context of the lives we’re so immersed in. We can use google to learn anything we want about world history and our country’s history, but our own personal history—which we really should know quite well—can only be accessed by asking questions.

During my visit, Nana referred to herself as “the last of the Mohicans,” meaning basically everyone she spent her life with is dead—her husband, siblings, cousins, and friends are all gone. Besides that being the most depressing fact of all time, it was also a jarring wake-up call that a treasure trove of rich and detailed information about my family’s past exists in one and only one place—an 88-year-old brain—and if I kept dicking around, most of that information would be lost forever.

So on this visit, I started asking questions.

She was annoyed.

But it only took a couple minutes for her to become absorbed in storytelling, and I spent the next three hours riveted.

I learned more than I had ever known about her childhood. I knew she and my grandfather had grown up during the Great Depression, but I never really knew the unbelievable details—things like her seeing a mother and her children being thrown onto the sidewalk by their landlord and left there to starve and freeze until every neighbor on the block chipped in a coin or two from their own impoverished situation so the woman could rent a room for one more month.

I learned a ton about my four paternal great-grandparents—again, I had known the basic info about them, but it was the details that for the first time made them real people. Three of them grew up in rough New York orphanages—the fourth left everything she knew in Latvia in her mid-teens and took a boat alone across the Atlantic, arriving in New York to work in a sweatshop.

I even for the first time heard stories about my grandmother’s grandmother, who came over separately from Latvia and lived with the family for her last years—and apparently had quite the personality. Thankfully, she died in 1941, just months before she would have learned that her four sons (who unlike their mother and sister, stayed in Latvia because they had a thriving family business there) were all killed in the Holocaust.

I knew none of this. How did I just learn now that my great-grandmother’s four brothers died in the Holocaust? And now that, for the first time, I know my four paternal great-grandparents and great-great grandmother as real, complex people with distinct personalities, I cannot believe I spent my life up to now satisfied with knowing almost nothing about them. Especially since it’s their particular orphanage/sweatshop/Great Depression struggle that has led to my ridiculously pleasant life.

And as happy as I am that I at least scratched the surface of learning who these people were, I’m now sad about all of these other gray people:

Small Family Tree

All of this has gotten me thinking about genealogy and how fascinating it is as a concept. What happens if I just keep extending my family tree up and up and up? What exactly is a fourth cousin and how many of them do I have and where are they all right now? How weird is it that to some kid in 2300, I’m one of the old-fashioned-looking dudes really high in his family tree on a level with hundreds of others? Normally, I’d just go internet spiral about this on my own, but since Wait But Why exists, we’re gonna do it together—
 
The Past: Your Ancestor Cone

So let’s start with the past, and see what happens if we keep going up the family tree, or what I’ll call your Ancestor Cone:

Big Family Tree

You can see that things get hectic pretty quickly when you start moving back generations. The top row is the 128-person group of your great5 grandparents, or your grandparents’ grandparents’ great-grandparents. The thing that I find surprising is how recently in time you had such a large number of ancestors. Estimating an average generation at 25-30 years, most of those people were your current age around 1800-1825. So the early 19th-century world contained 128 random strangers going about their lives, each of whose genes makes up 1/128th of who you are today.

Who were they all? What countries did they live in? What did they all do with their lives? What tragedies did they endure and what were their greatest triumphs? What were the 254 parent-child relationships in this diagram like? Which of the 252 in-law relationships above were close and loving and which were angry and contentious?

The craziest thing to me is that this diagram, which only represents the last 200 years of your ancestry, contains 127 romantic relationships, each involving at least one critical sex moment and most of them probably involving deep love. You’re the product of 127 romances, just in the last 200 years alone.

Alright, I’m nervous about this, but I’m gonna take a crack at going back even further—

Huge Family Tree

 

Okay that got completely out of hand. This diagram only goes five generations farther back than the one above it and look at the insanity that took place.

The 4,096 human beings in the top section are your great10 grandparents. Most of them were your age in the second half of the 1600s, just as the Enlightenment was getting going in Europe.

You can see why it’s not really that impressive when someone tells you they are descended from famous royalty who lived a few hundred years ago. Look how many people you’re descended from only about 300 years back! Within that top section, there’s probably some royalty, in addition to some peasants, scholars, warriors, painters, prostitutes, murderers, lunatics, and any other kind of person who existed back then.

Finally, I know I already made this point in the evolution post, but look closely at that top section and notice that you can actually see 4,096 distinct tiny people in there—and realize that if you pluck just one of them from there, you would not exist today. Come on.

You may also be noticing that there’s something that doesn’t make sense about the way these numbers are zooming up exponentially—we’re at 4,096 going back three centuries, and continuing at that rate, our ancestor number goes like this:

Family Tree Statistics
 
That puts you at 68 billion ancestors around 1100 AD. The reason that’s problematic is that the world population goes like this:

Family Tree Stats with Pop. Data
 
So how do we explain this?

With a concept called pedigree collapse, which is what happens when people end up with a mate who is somewhat or very closely related to them. So for example, if two cousins had a child, that child would only have six great-grandparents, not eight. Or, to put it another way, there are eight filled great-grandparent spots on that child’s family tree, but two of the spots are duplicates of two other spots—

Pedigree Collapse

Before you wince, absorb this fact: according to Rutgers anthropology professor Robin Fox, 80% of all marriages in history have been between second cousins or closer.1

The reason for this is that for most of human history, people spent most of their lives in the same five mile radius, and the other people in that same area tended to be immediate and extended family. To get away from their extended family when courting, men would have to walk over five miles away, which after a long day of hunting you just don’t feel like doing.

In the Western World, this is largely a phenomenon of the past, but in many parts of the world, this is still a common practice—for example, in most of the Middle East and North Africa, over 50% of today’s marriages are between second cousins or closer.1

So that group of 4,096 people above? A number of those spots are undoubtedly duplicates, meaning the real number of distinct people is likely a bit lower—and for someone a few thousand years ago, the number of 10th generation ancestors they’d have would be a lot lower than 4,096.

Because of pedigree collapse, if you extended your family tree way, way back, it would begin to get smaller, resulting in a diamond shape:

Pedigree Collapse
 
The widest point of the Ancestor Cone happens for most of us around 1200AD,2 when our family tree is near the total world population at the time. From that point on, pedigree collapse becomes a stronger factor than the normal upward x2 multiplier, and the tree converges inwards.
 
The Present: Your Living Relatives

So in this frenzy of procreation we’re all a part of, what’s the deal with our relation to the other people on this Earth today?

The simplest way to think about it is that every stranger in the world is a cousin of yours, and the only question is how distant a cousin they are. The degree of cousin (first, second, etc.) is just a way of referring to how far you have to go back before you get to a common ancestor. For first cousins, you only have to go back two generations to hit your common grandparents. For second cousins, you have to go back three generations to your common great-grandparents. For fifth cousins, you’d have to go back six generations until you arrive at your common pair of great-great-great-great-grandparents.

Since a lot of people get confused about cousin definitions, I made a little chart illustrating what a second cousin is.

What is a 2nd Cousin?

So notice that for you and your second cousin, A) your parent is a first cousin of their parent, B) you have grandparents that are siblings, and C) their parents are your common great-grandparents. For third cousins, everything just goes up a level—your parents are second cousins, your grandparents are first cousins, your great-grandparents are siblings, and you have a common pair of great-great-grandparents.

(For the whole “once/twice removed” thing, it’s about being on different generations—so your second cousin’s child is your second cousin once removed, because it’s one generation away from you; your grandfather’s first cousin is your first cousin twice removed. A straight second, third, or fourth cousin must be on your same generation level.)

The number of cousins you have grows exponentially as the degree of distance goes up. You may have a small number of first cousins, but you likely have hundreds of third cousins, thousands of fifth cousins, and over a million eighth cousins.

Because I got a little obsessed with this concept while doing this post, I decided to roll up the nerd sleeves and figured out a formula for this:

(n-1) 2d nd

—where n is the average number of children being had by a family and d is the degree of cousin you want to find the total number of (an explanation for this formula is at the bottom of the post). (P.S. I’m thrilled with myself right now.) (But also scared because there might be a better way to do this, so feel free to add suggestions in the comments.)

So to find out how many third cousins you’d have (d=3) if your family averaged having two children per couple (n=2), it would be (2-1) 23 * 23 = 64.

The number of fourth cousins you’d have (d=4) if your family averaged three children per couple (n=3) would be (3-1) 24 * 34 = 2,592.

Using this formula on yourself is hard, because you don’t know n, the average number of children your extended family is having—but you can get a general ballpark for the number using your nation’s average number of children per family statistic. I calculated some examples below:
 
Country chart
 
Most interesting to me is that these numbers go up so exponentially that taking the world average for number of children per family (2.36) 3, you can use the formula to calculate that if breeding were mixed evenly across cultures and nations, the most distant relative you’d have on Earth would be a 15th cousin.

However, since breeding isn’t mixed evenly and is instead contained mostly within nations and cultures, the most distant person within your culture or ethnicity is probably closer to you than a 15th cousin, while the farthest relation you have on Earth is likely to be as far as a 50th cousin.2

In any case, you have hundreds if not thousands of third and fourth cousins and you’re probably friends with some of them without realizing it—you might even be dating one of them.

The other way to look at this is from the top down and see how quickly the distance of relation is magnified as generations move down—while you and your sibling grew up in the same house, your kids will be cousins who might or might not be friends and your grandkids might barely know each other. When it comes to your and your sibling’s great-grandkids, it’s likely they won’t ever meet, and your great-great-grandkids might be best friends with each other and will never realize that their great-great-grandparents were siblings.

A nice example of this phenomenon:
 
prince chart

 

The Future: Your Descendant Cone

Maybe you won’t have children, or maybe your children won’t have children. But barring those possibilities, you’re likely to end up being either the great patriarch or matriarch of a Descendant Cone that will eventually make up a sizable chunk of the human race. In its first couple hundred years, before expanding into the thousands, it might look something like this:

Your Descendant Cone

Let’s take a closer look at one of your hundreds of great-great-great-great-great-grandchildren:

Telia

Little Telia, born right around the year 2300, is as much a mystery to you as your ancestors from the early 1800s up above. She owes her life to you, and somewhere in her personality is a trait or two of yours—but that’s the extent of your connection.

Party’s Over

Now so far in this post, you’ve gotten to enjoy being featured as the key person in all the family trees we’ve drawn. You’ve been the child that thousands of romances have aligned perfectly together to produce. You’ve been the centerpiece of a large extended family with rings of siblings and cousins around you. And now, you’re the great founder of a vast cone of descendants.

But all you have to do is shift the perspective, and suddenly you’re one of some 17th Century guy’s ten thousand descendants; you’re the second, or third, or fourth cousin (it’s weird to think of yourself as just someone’s random second cousin); and to Telia, you’re no grand patriarch or matriarch—you’re an unbelievably random tiny stick figure high up on her Ancestor Cone and you’re fuzzy because Tim can’t figure out how to export high-resolution images from Pixelmator even though he tried a bunch of different things but then it was 3am on Tuesday night and he can’t believe how thorough this post has gotten and why does it always end up becoming so much more thorough than he had assumed it would be you’d think by now he’d just absorb the fact that every post is a huge project and the sooner he gets that in his head the sooner he can stop being in a full panic on Monday and Tuesday of every week:

Telia Ancestor Cone
 
Most of those people on the top line are alive today, and you have no idea who’s standing there on Telia’s top line with you—that guy who works at the coffee shop might be her great-great-great-great-great-grandparent too, the two of you just two of her hundreds of nameless, forgotten ancient ancestors.

 

Conclusions

  • Now I feel special and important and also I feel irrelevant and meaningless.
  • Writing this post has really hammered home the point that humans are mainly a temporary container for their genes. In 150 years, all 7,100,000,000 people alive today will be dead, but all of our genes will be doing just fine, living in other people.
  • After the first conclusion point, I was teetering on whether to feel good or bad about all of this. Then, I depressed the shit out of myself with the second point. But to throw my moping ego a bone, I’ll consider an interesting idea, that my descendants might not need to ask their Nana questions to learn about my life and get to know me a bit—technology changes everything. In 100 years, my great-great-grandson might be able to easily pull up all kinds of info/photos/videos and learn whatever he wants to, which I’m sure will be nothing because the last thing he’ll be thinking about is what his great-great-grandfather was like. Dammit.
  • In any case, for now, there’s really only one good way to learn about where you came from—so start asking.

_________

 

Explanation of the Cousin Calculation Formula

The formula is (n-1) 2d nd

—where n is the average number of children being had by a family and d is the degree of cousin you want to find the total number of.

It boils down to a simple multiplication of the number of top-level siblings [(n-1) 2d] times the number of “eventual offspring on your generation level” each of those top-level siblings ultimately produces (nd).

Example 1

For a first cousin, the “top-level” is one’s parents’ generation because that’s the generation where we move “sideways” in the family tree before heading “down” to the first cousins. In this example, the number of “top-level siblings” is the number of blood-related aunts and uncles one has, or the number of combined siblings of one’s parents. We get that number by multiplying the total number of children in an average family minus one (that will get us the number of siblings since subtracting the one removes the parent) times the number of our top-level ancestors we need siblings for (in this case, two, since there are two parents). So for a first cousin calculation, the number of top-level siblings if the average family has three children (n = 3) is (3 – 1) * 21, or two siblings times two parents, equals four top-level siblings.

The second part is figuring out how many eventual first cousins each top-level sibling will produce. Since we’re using an average number of children in a family, culture, or nation as a constant n, we just need to multiply each top-level sibling by n to get their number of children. Since their children will have the same number of children n, to go down two generations we would multiply the top-level siblings by n2—this can be simplified as nd. For first cousins, we’d just need to multiply by n once because we’re just going down one generation.

So to get the number of first cousins in a family that always has three kids, d=1 and n=3, and (n-1) 2d nd comes out to 4 x 3 = 12. This is correct because your parents have four combined siblings and each has three kids.

Example 2

To find the number of third cousins someone has if everyone has two kids, we make n=2 and d=3. Here, the top-level siblings are on the great-grandparent level, because it’s their siblings whose great-grandkids are your third cousins—it’s on the great-grandparent level that we move sideways and then down to get to our third cousins.

So the number of great-grandparent siblings here is (n-1) 2d = (2-1) 23 = 8. This makes sense because you have eight great-grandparents and each one has one sibling (since in this example everyone has two kids, or one sibling). Each great-grandparent has nd = 23 = 8 great-grandchildren (since we’re moving four generations down and having two kids at each step), so the total number of third cousins in this example is 8 x 8 = 64.
 
Sources

1 Richard Conniff. “Go Ahead, Kiss Your Cousin.”
2 The Straight Dope: 2, 4, 8, 16, … how can you always have MORE ancestors as you go back in time?
3 http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/peo_tot_fer_rat-people-total-fertility-rate
4 John E. Pattison (2007), Estimating Inbreeding in Large Semi-isolated Populations: Effects of Varying Generation Length and of Migration, American Journal of Human Biology 19(4):495-510
5 The chapter All Africa and her progenies in Dawkins, Richard (1995). River Out of Eden.

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  1. Feeling Terribly Significant & Unsignificant

    … and not really sure what to do with that. Except pull out that geneology book my mother lent me and then go pepper my grandparents with questions for a couple of days. That sounds like a plan.

  2. The Baker

    Every week this blog crushes. Don’t you ever wait until Wednesday to post something again. I couldn’t sleep last night knowing I hadn’t had my fix.

  3. jskwrite

    Thanks for posting this stuff… I actually have tried documenting stuff like this for others. Only problem I have with the calculations was that second cousin numbers are based upon current birth rate, not that at the time of the great-grandparents.

  4. Traci Browne

    Love when your post arrives in my inbox and it’s proof that not everything has to be between 250 and 500 words. I love the way you shift the perspective. Growing up I had the privilege of spending a lot of time with not just both sets of grandparents but being babysat and spending quality time with great grandparents as well. Perhaps it’s the writer in me, but I spent most of my time with them listening to family stories. They all loved a willing audience and once you got them started there was an endless supply of fascinating tidbits about aunts and uncles, great aunts and uncles, great great grandparents, and of course my mom and dad. Best times I ever spent in my life were listening to them.

    • Wait But Why
      Wait But Why

      I think part of the problem is for many people, the quality years they get to spend with their grandparents are in their first 15 or 20 years, and people that age are typically just less interested in learning about stuff like their ancestors and less aware of how precious and fleeting the time they get to spend with grandparents is. And the 25 or 35 or 45-year-old in them that would love to hear grandparent stories often no longer has the chance to.

    • Wait But Why
      Wait But Why

      Very cool. Apparently my great-grandmother who immigrated was from a place called Talsin? Or something like that. It’s on the list to visit.

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  6. G Taylor

    Very impressive on the math side of things; I’ll have to think about the equation, my brain’s frazzled at the moment. Two immediate thoughts though:
    1) This could easily have been split into a “To be continued…” with more to come next week. If that helps alleviate some of the panic mindset.
    2) Adoption. Genes are definitely one thing, but I dare say how you are raised has some influence on things down the line. It’s also another confounding variable, because while there must BE an actual mother (who died in childbirth?) tracing back, the awareness of who’s a cousin of who can get murky. Thinking a bit of the movie “Philomena”. …But then I’ve never understood anything beyond being a first cousin.

    My regards to your Nana, may you have more conversations.

    • Wait But Why
      Wait But Why

      1) I did that once (with the procrastination posts), but I kind of don’t like doing it cause when you post only once a week, that one post ends up taking up a half a month.

      2) Interesting. The big family tree is still real and full and accurate, but it’s true that a number of the people on it may have never met the parents above them or been raised by them.

  7. vblayney@gmail.com

    Won’t Harry’s future sons be nephews of a King William? Still, all the other factoids by generation of their lives will be on track.

  8. Anonymous

    Great post, so thoroughly researched and thoughtfully presented. It really is mind blowing stuff. p.s.
    is Tim spending too much time in the Dark Playground ?

  9. RT

    I am definitely procrastinating by writing this post, but I expect some of you may find it very relevant.

    Re “The Present: Your Living Relatives” – as you (Tim) probably know, there are over-the-counter DNA tests that allow you to test whether you share DNA with (= are related to) other people in the testing company’s database. 23andMe is telling me I’m related to over a thousand people that have tested with them. (FTDNA’s Family Finder test is similar to 23andMe’s, but 23andMe is preferred because FTDNA’s procedure for finding matches on the X chromosome is lame, and this special case of matching is important.) The companies attempt to predict your relationship to a given person with matching DNA, based on the number and size of DNA segments you share with your match. Here is a paper that describes the basis for this comparison: “Cryptic Distant Relatives Are Common”
    http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0034267

    Interestingly, MOST of your living relatives share no detectable DNA with you. (The “detectable” DNA thresholds are based on the statistical limitations of the microarray SNP test used, as well as the endogamy of the population — the following comments apply to a “typical” American/English population but not to, for example, Ashkenazim.) Chances are, any two specific people who are 5th cousins or more distant will not share detectable DNA:
    https://customercare.23andme.com/entries/21263528
    On the other hand, you have SO many living relatives who are 5th cousins or greater, there are still TONS of random distant relatives that you do share DNA with. You can contact them all, at least the ones that have already been tested, and say “Hi.”

    An interesting question, “How much of your genome do you inherit from a particular ancestor?” is addressed here:
    http://gcbias.org/2013/11/04/how-much-of-your-genome-do-you-inherit-from-a-particular-ancestor/
    Two related posts are
    http://gcbias.org/2013/12/02/how-many-genomic-blocks-do-you-share-with-a-cousin/
    http://gcbias.org/2013/10/20/how-much-of-your-genome-do-you-inherit-from-a-particular-grandparent/

    Richard

  10. Jacob

    Man oh man was this good. I really never read long articles, I just don’t have the patience or time or discipline. And that rule goes right out the window with Wait But Why. This was a pure pleasure to read; fascinating, educational, funny, visual. Like a great class. I was also on the floor laughing when you opened up about your personal troubles in the middle of a paragraph towards the end. Definitely gonna send this one around to everyone I know.

  11. Anonymous

    hahaha this was the perfect medicine for my petty high-school-dance-I-asked-him-but-does-he-like-me-back woes. Sometimes we all just need a little reality check of our own insignificance. Thanks for that, seriously.

  12. Diana Elizabeth

    I love this. I just asked my dad and mom if they would do video stories, they said yes and with documents (immigration and photos). I just learned that my great grandpa was the teacher for the Last Emporer of China. I would have never known. I look forward to using my HandyCam to document my parents telling stories. Thank you for this great post.

  13. Lashom

    Your drawings are so fun to look at. So colorful. They make their points so clearly.

    I’ve read every post on Wait But Why and this is the first time I’ve commented.

  14. ragebol

    not read it yét. Will do after this reply. But what does tuesday mean for Dutch time, GMT+1? At what time in the Netherlands is yóur tuesday finished? Or, where do you live so I can calculate it myself.

  15. Ros

    Your brain is protecting you Tim: if you started each post knowing how EPIC and UNSTOPPABLE it was going to become, you’d never start. Thank you for a great read and for making my brain hurt, again.

  16. anonymous

    “Walking, I am listening to a deeper way. Suddenly all my ancestors are behind me. Be still, they say. Watch and listen. You are the result of the love of thousands.” Linda Hogan (b.1947) Native American writer

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  18. DS

    For some reason, this post took me to a sad place: those of us who had relatives die in the Holocaust or other genocide event have way fewer possible cousins out there.

  19. rage

    My grandfathers’ mind is narrowed down so much that he’s not really capable of ‘meeting new people’ anymore, and since I only saw him once a year on crowded familygatherings I would be ‘a new people’. Too bad, since I finally collected the courage to start visiting him and ask about his EPIC warstories. (once a jewish woman living in US sent me a message on facebook if I knew a family with my last name where she went into hiding during WW2 (afterwards she went to america). Turned out she hided at a family that was friends with my grandfather).

    My mothers parents are still alive and smart though. But get so much attention of their six children that i’m still very scared that they wouldn’t appreciate my company and would be too polite to say so. And I would be afraid too ask questions since I know my grandfather saw his father get shot by the Germans and my grandmother doesn’t really have a nice past as well.

    Maybe I should start being less of a pussy.

    Anyway: for procrastinators tuesday ends before office-hours on wednesday (when it goes for turning in schoolassignments it goes for turning in blogs as well), you studied at harvard, so probably live near it. NY time is gmt-5. I’ll check this blog at 8 + 6 = 14:00 on wednesdays Dutch time. Thank you!

    • carolyn

      @ rage.

      I am a grandmother, GO ask your grandparents. I will tell you a secret of a grandparent. THEY LOVE THEIR GRANDCHILDREN, even if they do not get to see them very often. THEY long for you to come and see them. I know firsthand. I have a teenaged grandson I do not get to see very much anymore, because he is a teenager and doing teenage things, which I am happy he is doing, but I miss him.

      Go see them, and give them each a hug and a kiss on the cheek. You will not regret it.

  20. anon and anon

    I believe that the rules of succession to the throne of the UK have changed: now the oldest child of the current monarch, of any gender, is first in line. I think.

  21. Gail

    Whoa! This whole post totally blows my mind! And I have been doing genealogy for over 40 years! I love the perspective of looking at my descendants and realizing that I could be neighbors with THEIR ancestors and never know it! It gives the term “family of man” new meaning.
    Gail at seezooeyrun.wordpress.com

  22. Frank

    Hi,

    Thank you for this entertaining and enlightening post. Just a side note: not all languages count cousins the same way as English. In Russian a cousin is a brother or sister once removed, but the “once removed” part is often left out. In Icelandic frændi (male) and frænka (female) mean any close relative that’s not a brother, father or a son, i.e. there’s no difference between a cousin, an uncle or a nephew.

    Regards,
    Frank.

  23. Deb

    Totally awesome post, which I appreciate as an amateur geologist and a science teacher. I enjoy the concept that I am the result of so many serendipitous event such as crop choices, and perhaps “the pretty girl wore a bone necklace at the tribal gathering that day.” The statement that 80% of all marriages in history were second cousins or closer seems realistic. At an event for the recovery of the endangered whooping crane, a geneticist from the Smithsonian told us not to fret too much about mutations in a population that has a small gene pool. He said the royal family of India (if I remember correctly) had been interbreeding for 2000 years. His comment was basically that “inbreeding will weed out the harmful mutations if you keep at it long enough”. It got a big laugh, but I would love to hear more data.

  24. Deb Veight

    I’ve been working n family tree or about 17 yrs. Now..
    And one thing hat I t infused with is the difference between
    First,second third cousins etc, and cousins removed?
    What are they being removed from? Eel like I’m being disowned…lol

  25. Leonard

    I am going to use this in my Science class in a few months. I have been looking for material to augment a lesson on population growth and it is great. I will also check your math because that’s what I do, but I expect it will be fine.

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  27. V not for Vendetta

    now I feel sick because most/all the shitty people I’ve met in the real life are probably my not-so-distant relatives. it’s like knowing that your are related to tape worms *reads some of the older articles* well poop.

  28. Tom R

    My father know all the family history going back a hundred and fifty years and who his second, third, fourth and even fifth cousins were because he grew up in an Irish village when knowing such things were important. But we never sat him down and recorded it. I have regretted it every day since he died. So ask your now before it is too late.

  29. pb.

    when i was in eighth grade, we had to do a social studies “culture” project where we recorded our family history. i interviewed my great-grandmother only months before she died and got a recording of her singing a cajun song and clapping, laughing and speaking in cajun french.

    the only issue with this is the most accessible recording technology for an eighth grader in louisiana in 1995 was cassette tape. so, now i have 4 cassettes of family members telling stories and who owns a cassette player anymore?

  30. Jeannie

    G’Day! I live in (almost) ‘outback Australia’ and after reading this article, I am probably related to everyone who has replied! Amazing read.

  31. Chris

    Thanks for this. It’s absolutely fascinating!

    And to think I only signed up to follow your blog because of some amusing cat pictures!!!! :)

  32. Marshall

    Is there any way to account for unknown pedigree collapse? It would seem that were I to marry someone inside my ethnicity there would be at least some overlap in pedigree, even if we are 15th cousins.

  33. Melanie

    I shared this particular post with my Grade 9 class. We are studying genetics at the moment. They absolutely loved it!

    Melanie Blair
    Johannesburg
    South Africa

  34. Panic monster

    Greetings from Brazil! Along with TIm Ferriss, your blog is the one and only amazing reads of the week!
    Keep doing the great job!

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  36. Jenn

    This was fascinating!! I do have one question about the math though… I understand how the family tree is narrower at the top because of the cousin marriages, but if the 80% of all marriages are cousins, wouldn’t that stay somewhat consistent over a number of generations, preventing the widening of the family tree in the middle? Nerdy question, I know, but thats where my brain went. :-)

  37. Penny

    An interesting snippet about the British royal family is that Prince Philip, the Queen’s husband, is in line to the throne. So an extended set of assassinations and accidents could result in him inheriting the throne from his grandson. However he is about position 600, and he is in his nineties, which means it’s a bit late for him to do anything much if he did become king.

  38. Derek

    I enjoy thinking about the fact that we think technology will allow people of the future to see all this information we are creating, and yet to somebody 4000 years from now will they have any idea what a CD or hard disk drive contains? Imagine knowing nothing about CDs, and trying to decipher what they were used for. They are shiny, have colorful pictures and text on them, and some patterns. Artwork? Decorations? Money? Signs of personal affluence? And how many items that we currently find from 4000 years ago do we make those same assumptions because they are shiny, have colorful pictures and text, and some patterns…

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  40. Verity Violet

    Maybe this is a silly question, but you don’t seem to factor in historical events like the major wars, and the Black Death of medieval times, which took out a sizeable chunk of the earth’s population — wouldn’t this have left some noticeable gaps in the ranks of those enormous numbers in your charts?

  41. Verity Violet

    What about all the wars, and things like the Black Death (plague) during medieval times, in which about a quarter of the earth’s population at the time died? Wouldn’t that make a difference to some of those huge numbers in the charts?

  42. SMDXS

    It was all so so interesting when I was the center of attention. Then you throw the last graphic up there and just blow my mind. I mean literally. Mind. Blown. And by literally I mean the new definition of the word, not the literal definition of the word.

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  44. GreenT

    I was just remarking to my boss the other day how sad it is that most people have no clue about who their relatives were just 120 years ago. So, I loved this post because it gives my world some context, if not names and faces. I’m a 51-year old adult adoptee, married with 3 step-daughters (whom I love dearly) and my first biological child on the way. So, it’s pretty cool to see that I’ve now got a chance to “cone” in the genetic sense too. But it begs the question: if we can now conceive that we’re all real-as-shit cousins, why the hell do we continue to hurt each other? (Yes, I know, you always hurt the ones you love. But seriously.) You’d think that may be Putin or Kim Jong-whatever (or even Dick Cheney) might say, “Oh wait, hold up. That’s my cuz.” But no. Why not though? Are we simply just a bunch of genetically violent bastards who killed and ate all the Neanderthals and, hey, when famine hits one day, you’re next? Or what? There’s a post I’d like to read.

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  46. TonyV

    Two thoughts on the comments above.
    Don’t worry too much about being related distantly to unpleasant neighbours. I only had to go back 3 generations in my family to discover an ancestor who would have been imprisoned for many years in modern times for his cruelty and criminality. You need to worry about your own family maybe more than your neighbours.
    I had my DNA sampled a few years back in an effort to link to a well-researched family with the same surname because I’d hit a brick wall. It failed. We weren’t related. Later I discovered so many examples of births out of wedlock that I started to consider how much we really know about our ancestors. For example was the man I thought of as our grandfather actually the father of my father? if the answer for whatever reason is “no” it doesn’t change the maths but it sure as hell changes the things you thought you may have inherited from the grandfather you you knew. Maybe that’s why my DNA search was negative…I was looking under the wrong name!

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  48. Anonymous

    My mother has often told me about her family being thrown out off the house while she was still sitting on the toilet, and they were banging on the toilet door. In The Netherlands people employed by some farmer lived in one of the small houses on the land of that farmer, so when the farmer fired the man in the family (in my grandparent’s case, because the government had decided on a 5-day week, so my uncles wanted a 5-day week, as they were allowed by law, but the farmer didn’t want to give it to them_ the whole family was thrown out of their house. It was post WWII, and new houses were being build, so my mother and her parents and siblings had to stay for a while in a large public building until a house was finished and they were alowed to live there. My grandfather and his sons started working in the city in construction, ‘cos there was a lot of work in construction just after WWII. Still, my father had to sue his former employer to get at least part of the money he was owed for all those years of work for that farmer.

  49. Anonymous

    Not everyone’s DNA will still be rolling along in three centuries. We are wiping out small pockets of indigenous, traditional people and cultures at an alarming rate. They are probably repositories of some of the greatest genetic diversity on the planet due to their isolation and lack of cross-breeding with the rest of us in the developed or developing world. Some have unique adaptations to climate, disease, and other conditions. Besides their inherent right to exist and maintain their way of life, we should also consider protecting them to protect the resilience of the human gene pool.

  50. Anonymous

    There was a girl with the same last name in the same year in my high school, and my parents had no idea who she was (as far as my dad knew, both his parents came over from Italy by themselves without others in the family). However, there are probably thousands of people with my last name in Italy, so there is no doubt we are related on some scale and just had relatives come over to the US at different times, and coincidentally ended up living in a similar area and going to the same high school at the same time. Very weird to think about.

  51. Elaine

    I find asking a specific question then standing back and listening brings the best results. One really interesting question I suggest everyone asks their parents and grandparents is: how did you meet your partner? Until modern times, most met someone from the same or the next village; since WW1 my family have travelled and been finding partners from other communities; also occupations suddenly changed from generations of farming to almost anything

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  53. Susan Brown

    Did you factor in the probable fact that even though there are two parents for every person, due to the primitive proclivities of men past and present, one father may have scores of offspring who have no idea that the reason they have so much in common is that they are half siblings. This will collapse the tree somewhat.

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  56. Mukesh

    I stumbled on your website accidentally. After reading first article I am hooked to your website. I am going through your all old articles one by one. This post reminds me a billboard signs I saw which says something like “If we go back far enough all of us are related”

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